Matty’s Stash
Matty was using bumGenius 3.0 AIO’s exclusively and these worked wonderfully on him. They were trim and never leaked. We’d use the extra doubler at night and he always woke up dry. We never had any issues with Velcro or elastic wear ‘n tear. Now, at 2 ½, he’s in pull-ups. This is not a budget or environmentally friendly option, but don’t worry, I’m making some fleece (Batman and Wall-e) training pants this evening. I’m planning to use organic cotton and prefolds as a sewn in doubler with more fleece lining on top. More on that later…

Mila’s Stash
With Mila I loosened up a little and decided that all of my diapers didn’t have to be the same brand (I can be a little obsessive) and I’m so glad I did. First in her rotation we have about 12 fitted Kissaluvs (we use homemade fleece and wool covers or Bummi’s Whisper Wrap). Those are the first I reach for and my personal favorites at this stage.

Next is a Swaddlebees fitted. I love the soaker on this one, it adds a little bulk, but it’s great for overnight and still has an excellent fit on her tiny butt. We have one Thirsties AIO (she outgrew the others) and I like this one better than Matty’s OS (one size). It’s much trimmer on such a tiny baby. They don’t tend to be as absorbent as my others so if I’m planning on having her in it for a while I add a doubler… or sometimes two.

Then we have some Happy Heinies pocket diapers. They’re great for outings or going to Nanna’s house because the actual change time is just as quick and easy as ’sposies and you can customize absorbency depending on what you ’stuff’ it with. We keep some prefolds around for laundry day (and Kyle prefers them) and gdiapers in case I’m too sick to do laundry or if I need to squeeze Mila into an almost-to-small outfit.

Other thoughts...
I’ve found that water resistant covers work best for us and they seem more comfortable than a lot of PUL covers (all though a lot of PUL’s are very good quality and can be very cozy – not stiff at all) and I love the fitteds (partially due to the fact that I don’t enjoy stuffing pockets). These are just my personal preferences now. As Mila grows and starts getting taller other brands will fit just as well or better. I am very anxious to try some bamboo fitteds and wool skirties or longies.

I found a really cool pattern online for the fleece soakers I’ve been making, http://katrinassqs.blogspot.com/, I’m a novice and the few problems I’ve had were not due to the pattern but my absent-mindedness and unwillingness to thoroughly read directions… Including cutting time I’ve gotten to where I can turn out 1 for every 15-20 minutes. So if you’re crafty (or even if you’re not) then you may want to give it a try.

Here are the basic types of cloth diapers:

Bum Genius AIO

All-in-ones (AIO) are very easy-to-contoured diapers, thus making them great for babysitters, grandparents, daycares, or even dad. They use snap or hook and loop (Velcro) closures and consist of a waterproof outer layer, absorbent hidden layers, and a soft inner layer to keep baby comfortable. Some people use AIO’s full time and some just keep a few for convenience. If you decide to use them full time be sure to stock up and have plenty in rotation because frequent washing can reduce the effectiveness of the waterproof outer layer.

All-in-two (AI2) The AI2 is basically the same as the AIO except that the absorbent soaker is not attatched to the diaper, it must be layed in the diaper. The point of this is to shorten drying time.

A Happy Heiny's Pocket Diaper

Pocket Diapers have been around for about a little over a decade, making them the newest type of cloth diaper. They use snap or hook and loop closures and consist of a waterproof outer layer and a soft inner layer. There is an opening at the top which creates a pocket between the two layers and you stuff it with a doubler or even a prefold. These are nice because you can customize the amount of absorbency you want.

Kissaluv Fitted Diapers

Fitted Diapers are just that – fitted. This quality makes them great for newborns and hard-to-fit babies and for containing runny poop. They come with snap or hook and loop closures and are made of absorbent fabrics but do not have a waterproof layer so they require a cover.

Prefolds

Prefolds are rectangular and divided into three absorbent sections, the middle section being the most absorbent. Sometimes prefolds are defined as 4-6-4 or something similar, this is describing the number of layers in each section. Prefolds are the most economical choice but also take a little more learning time. They require diaper pins or a Snappi.

Contour Diapers

Contour diapers are pretty much modified prefolds. They’re hourglass shaped and have no elastic. You can use a snappi or diaper pin to fasten contour diapers. There is no waterproof layer so they will require a diaper cover.

Waterproof diaper covers are usually made from PUL or some other sort of laminate and can use snap or hook and loop closures. They keep access moisture from soaking through the diaper onto clothes.

Water- resistant diaper covers (also called “soakers”) work to absorb extra moisture from the diaper but still keep your baby’s clothes dry. These are our preferred covers, especially for night time.

These are Snappies

Snappi is a closure method for prefolds to substitute diaper pins. They’re rubbery and shaped like a “T” with claws at each point. We have several of these and they work wonderfully.

Doublers are also referred to as soakers or liners. They are absorbent pads that you lay in the diaper or cover for extra protection, a must have for heavy wetters or night time.

How Many Cloth Diapers?

When we started cloth diapering I did a little research on how many cloth diapers you should keep in your stash. We were tight on money so I decided to scrimp and buy less than the average recommendation. I wanted to hold out and buy some cuter, more expensive diapers later on so I figured I would just tough it out and do a lot of laundry. That didn’t work out very well and I ended up getting peed on a lot and having to make some emergency trips to the store for disposables. We slowly built up our stash and now I keep some gdiapers around for emergencies.

If you can’t afford to buy all of your cloth diapers at once, start with one day’s worth at a time. This way your disposables will last you longer so you should have some extra money on your next pay day to invest in a few more cloth diapers. Just keep working towards a full stash and before you know it you’ll be cloth diapering full time.

When deciding how many diapers you’ll need you want to take a few things into consideration…

How often do you want to do laundry? Every day, every other day, or every three days? You shouldn’t store wet or dirty diapers for more than three days. They can end up with gnarly stains and smells that may never go away and the urine breaks down the fibers, shortening the life of your diapers. We have about 18 diapers for our 3 month old, plus a few prefolds to use while the others are in the washer, and these will last us a good 2 ½ to 3 days. Our daughter is not a particularly heavy wetter though, which leads us to our next point to consider.

Is your child a heavy wetter? Our son is an extremely heavy wetter. He’s always gone through a ton of diapers per day and there doesn’t seem to be much we can do about it. Obviously if your child is a heavy wetter you will want to have more diapers in your stash than we have in ours. If you don’t know whether your child will be a heavy wetter, you can keep several infant prefolds in your stash. This way if it turns out you don’t need all the diapers you can use the prefolds as doublers for your other diapers or even for an older sibling.

How old is your baby? This makes a huge difference in the amount of diapers you will need. Newborns are peeing or pooping every time you turn around and since their diet is exclusively fluids they tend to have more “blowouts”. Toddlers tend to require less diapers as they get older and their bodies prepare for potty training/learning.

Newborns – we recommend a stash of 24-36 diapers. This should hold you over for 2-3 days. If your diapers require covers you should have 1 cover per 4-6 diapers, but for newborns I would recommend more because they tend to poop on the covers. So for this stash we would recommend 8-12 diaper covers.

6 to 12 Mos. – Most babies in this age group have started sleeping through the night or are at least sleeping for longer periods of time, therefore requiring less frequent diaper changes. We recommend 20-30 diapers, laundering every 2-3 days.

12 to 24 Mos. – By this age babies are typically eating more solids than breast milk or formula, so again there will be a decrease in the amount of diaper changes needed. We recommend 16-24 diapers, laundering every 2-3 days.

Potty training/learning – Usually during this time you can cut back to 8-12 diapers, laundering every 2-3 days.

Aside from diapers you will also want to invest in a diaper pail (you can store diapers in a dry or wet pail), 12-24 doublers, and since you are doing laundry anyways you may want to get 2 -3 dozen cloth wipes. Remember that these are only guidelines. Combine this information with your child’s specific needs and your preferences to come up with the right number of diapers for your stash. Don’t be afraid to buy too many, having a larger stash means that each diaper is used less in rotation and this will lengthen the life of your diapers.